Backpacking through Europe in 1994

Day 47 • October 23, 1994
Rødekro, Denmark, Day 3


This was a day of contrasts.

It started out warm and easy. Dorte and I walked over to her parents’ house in the morning. They had hosted my sister Tracy years earlier, so they already felt like they knew me. We spent time looking through old photo albums from Dorte’s year in Kearney, laughing at old pictures and catching up. It felt comfortable and familiar — like being around family.

But then I called home.

My credit card statements had started arriving back in Kearney, and Tracy had told my parents. I ended up having that conversation sitting in Dorte’s parents’ living room. My dad was furious. He wanted to know what the hell I was doing over here. When I hung up the phone, I felt small. No money, no job, no clear future. I spent the rest of the afternoon feeling miserable and quietly ashamed.

That night, I tried to shake it off by watching Total Recall and flipping through the channels. What I landed on next felt like something out of a time capsule.


A Bicycle by the Water
It leaned against the fence like it was at home there — simple, still, and perfectly at ease beside the wide peaceful field.


My Photographs from today in Rødekro, Denmark



DAY 47 / 10-23-94
Rødekro, Denmark, Day 3

We got up early, ate breakfast and left by 8:30. Anker had a soccer match to play in and after we got to the field Dorte & I walked to her parent’s house. They were very excited to meet me after seeing pictures of me and having Tracy stay with them four years ago.

Dorte and I walked around the town, came back and looked at pictures from her year in Nebraska. It is so weird to see pictures of my town & school & people I know from four to five years ago.

We ate a really good lunch, and then Dorte’s parents invited me to call my parents. But Mom & Dad were mad at me for my credit card bills, and we argued for most of the conversation, so it wasn’t as good as I wish I would’ve been.

Anyway, after that, Dorte & I went over and got Anker’s parents, and came back to Rødekro for coffee & danishes & gingerbread.

Shortly thereafter I took a nap. After dinner, we watched “Total Recall” in English. Anker & Dorte went to bed & I channel surfed. I found Beavis and Butthead on MTV, then more infomercials! The Super Step and No-Wet Wonder Foam. I can’t believe people buy this shit! I guess there are suckers all over the world.


Beavis and Butt-Head

Beavis and Butt-Head was an animated television series created by Mike Judge that originally aired on MTV from 1993 to 1997. The show followed two dim-witted teenage boys who spent their time watching music videos, making crude jokes, and getting into trouble. It became one of the most controversial and culturally significant animated shows of the 1990s.

Watch an episode of Beavis and Butthead on YouTube here:


Looking Back from 2026

This day started out warm and easy. Walking around Rødekro with Dorte, visiting her parents, looking through old photo albums — it felt comfortable and familiar.

Then I called home.

My credit card statements, which I had forwarded to Tracy, had started arriving and she had told my parents. I ended up having that conversation sitting in Dorte’s parents’ living room. My dad was furious. He wanted to know what the hell I was doing over here, spending money I didn’t have, with no real plan. When I hung up the phone, I felt small. No money, no job, no future. I spent the rest of the afternoon feeling miserable and quietly ashamed.

That night, after watching Total Recall, I started flipping through the channels and landed on a late-night infomercial for something called the Super Step. It was hosted by Bruce Jenner — the Olympic athlete, looking strong and confident, with posters of himself on the wall behind him.

Sitting there in Denmark, already feeling like a failure, watching this famous athlete sell exercise equipment on TV… it was surreal. Looking back now, in 2026, that moment feels like stepping into a time machine. I was seeing Bruce Jenner exactly as I remembered him — long before he would become Caitlyn Jenner.